1. Know yourself, Engage yourself and Marry yourself
   
   
   • Define your Life Purpose
     
   • Discern and live by your Values and Priorities
     
   • Create your Life Vision and Life Mission Statement
     
   • Develop a Legacy that will live forever

2. Create a Balanced Lifestyle
   • Set Boundaries and eliminate energy drains
     
   • Create a proactive Self Maintenance program
     
   • Evaluate and Inventory your lifestyle weekly

3. Surround yourself with Supportive Networks and Communities
   • Seek out like-minded and like-valued people
     
   • Create Accountability agreements with others
     
   • Avoid negative situations and environments

4. Know your Requirements and Needs
   • Create and live by your “Deal Makers” and “Deal
     Breakers”
     
   • Make direct requests to get your needs met
     
   • Always be true to yourself

5. Take your work in life seriously, but take life lightly
   • Practice being flexible, fluid, and accepting
     
   • Avoid trying to “push the river”
     
   • Express your passion in life with the utmost of passion

6. Understand the healthy romantic relationship developmental process
   • Create the criteria for your Life Partner
     
   • Develop “Screening” and “Testing” strategies
     
   • Use your support system for feedback and input

7. Define your personal Spirituality
   • Discover and walk your Spiritual Path
     
   • Practice daily acts to activate your “Highest Self”
     
   • Accept life on life’s terms

8. Be perfectly imperfect
   • Know your character challenges and work to strengthen those areas
     
   • Accept all your errors, mis-takes and failures
     
   • Practice non-judgment of yourself and all others

9. Live from Abundance
   • Practice daily acts of ‘Random Kindness”
     
   • Develop a “Pay it Forward” system in your life
     
   • Create an affirming, fear-less inner dialogue

10. Be an Excellent Communicator
    • Practice Active Listening as often as possible
      
    • Commit to creating a “Win-Win” outcome with others
      
    • Learn to process emotions, conflict and disagreements

11. Get out of your comfort zone
    • Learn to accept all your uncomfortable feelings and emotions
      
    • Practice deliberate daily acts of new behavior
      
    • Celebrate discomfort as healthy growth and development

12. Consciously Breathe and Smile
    • Learn to be Silly
      
    • Develop Breathing Exercises to enhance your Mind, Body, Heart and Soul
      
    • “Fake it til you make it”: Smile until you are happy

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